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Why Celebrations of Life Still Matter in Perth


Death is for the Living banner with native Australian flowers in soft focus, featuring Carina Quinn, Perth Celebration of Life Celebrant — tagline celebrating stories of lives well lived and holding space for those who carry them forward


We live in a world that moves fast... But when someone dies, time behaves differently. It slows down.The noise fades.And suddenly, we remember what it feels like to stop.

That’s where a celebration of life comes in — not as a replacement for a funeral, but as a deeply human way to gather, reflect, and remember in an age that keeps urging us to move on.

Here in Perth, I see it time and again — families craving something real. They want ceremonies that reflect their person’s life, not a script. Modern Perth farewells are often held in gardens, homes, and community halls — places filled with memory, laughter, and light.

 

A pause we still need

A celebration of life (funeral ceremony) is one of the last remaining places where the world collectively stops for a moment.Phones go away. Faces turn toward a single story...

Funerals, memorials, celebrations of life — whatever name you choose — remind us that...


"Grief isn’t an inconvenience to be managed. It’s love, trying to find a new home."

 

The danger of skipping the goodbye

More and more, families are choosing to “keep it simple.”A direct cremation, no service, no fuss.And sometimes, that simplicity is exactly what’s needed. But other times — when we take away the gathering, the words, the space — something vital gets lost.

When we skip ceremony, whether that’s a funeral or a celebration of life, we skip the collective breath-out that helps us start healing.Without it, grief has nowhere to go.


"A ceremony doesn’t just honour the person who’s gone. It holds up the people who remain."


Across Perth, more families are choosing to personalise their farewells — sometimes calling them memorials, sometimes simply “gatherings.” Whatever the name, the heart of it remains the same: a moment to stop, remember, and reconnect through story.


A place for stories

Celebrations of life still matter because stories still matter...

Every story shared in that space becomes a small act of defiance against forgetting.It says: You were here. You mattered. We remember.


Choosing meaning over perfection

Modern celebrations of life aren’t about doing things “the right way.”They’re about doing things your way.

Funerals, memorials, celebrations — they can be messy, imperfect, beautiful things.They can hold both sobs and laughter...

What matters is the pause — the moment where we gather around love, not loss.


A way forward

In a world that avoids pain, celebrations of life invite us to face it...

So yes, these gatherings still matter.Not because they’re old-fashioned,but because they give us what our fast world rarely does:time to feel,space to remember,and permission to begin again.

 


FAQ


What is a celebration of life ceremony?

It’s a modern, story-based gathering to honour someone’s life through love, laughter, and shared memories.


Can I hold a celebration of life in Perth?

Absolutely — Perth offers beautiful spaces, from parklands to private gardens, for personal farewells that feel true to your person.


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Carina Quinn, Perth funeral celebrant, smiling warmly in a black dress and turquoise necklace, representing heartfelt and modern celebrations of life.

If you’re looking for a celebrant to help honour someone you love, I’d be honoured to help you find the right words.

— Carina Quinn | The Wordsmith CelebrantCreating modern, heartfelt celebrations of life across Perth.


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  • Carina Burress The Wordsmith Marriage Celebrant & MC
  • Carina Burress The Wordsmith Marriage Celebrant & MC

I am grateful and humbled to work, learn, live, create and perform ceremonies on the land of The Whadjuk Nyoongar people.

Aboriginal cultures and customs have nurtured, and continue to nurture, this land. We follow in the footsteps of those who have been before us for tens of thousands of years. This land beneath us has seen people dance and sing, live and hold ceremonies, not too dissimilar from the ceremonies I create.

I appreciate, pay my respects and honour the custodians, Aboriginal Elders past, present and emerging for they hold the memories, the traditions, the culture and hopes of Indigenous Australia. We are but a piece in the bigger picture.  ​

​© 2019 by Carina Quinn The Wordsmith Celebrant + MC

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